Archive for March, 2009

5 Ways to Tell if Your New Girl Digs You Like Dig Dug.

March 16, 2009

You’ve been out on a first date with a new woman and you’re interested in pursuing her. However, what you don’t know is this: Is this woman into me? That’s the noodle spinner, isn’t it?

It’s not always easy to discern if a woman is into you or not. However, there are some tell tale signs that, if you’re astute enough an observer, will lead you in the right direction when you ask yourself whether to pursue or not. (more…)

The Three Dreaded Words.

March 13, 2009

I love you. Such simple words. Why, then are they so difficult to say? Many people wrestle with the decision to say them for some time. They wonder if it is the right time. Is it too soon? Will the other person say it back? Will they flip out that I am saying it, and will it force them to bail on me? And this is just the thought process for the person who ISN’T prone to over-thinking everything. (more…)

This is the Sound of Settling.

March 7, 2009

Is not just a good song by Death Cab for Cutie, it’s also a frightening trend in people’s attitude when it comes to dating. Why do people settle for a lukewarm relationship? Settle for a person they are not crazy in love with? My parents have been married for 26 years and they are still madly in love. I think it’s fantastic that they still feel that way about one another after all these years. Isn’t that what everyone should strive for when it comes to their relationship? I know lots of people who are in relationships with a person they don’t see a future with and yet they keep dating that person. Is being alone so scary that dating someone you are only mildly interested in the best alternative? After about the age of 25ish dating for fun seems to be over for women there is a bit more pressure to find “The One”. (more…)

How Not to Get Punched in the Neck on the First Date.

March 7, 2009

Okay, so you probably won’t get punched in the neck on your first date. Which is a good thing, unless you’re into that sort of action. This article looks to dissect a few areas that can help make those first few dates successful ones… The article is geared more toward the guys out there, but women should be able to find some gold here, as well; from choosing a place to meet, finding what you should spend and how to keep things moving along if things are going well. (more…)